It gets better, SO much better

In light of the many recent suicides of gay teens, celebs and organizations have started a quickly spreading campaign "It gets better". I think it is SO vital that young kids know this and that we all do our part to spread love and acceptance.

Growing up is brutal. For those who had or are having that movie-like high school experience, that's awesome. But what about the rest? I, personally, had an awful high school experience. I was never bullied or picked on, I had various friends over the years, and made good grades. But, and while I'll share a lot I won't go into details about this, I can tell you that I was pretty much miserable the whole time. It was a four year low point.... I felt really sad and, most importantly, alone most of the time.

But, like everyone says, it DOES get better. It gets a million times better!!! I took moving to LA after high school as my opportunity to cleanse my life of all the bad and start over fresh. It was the best thing ever. I love my life and my friends. When I think back to high school, it feels like the life of someone else. It's so insignificant.

And, no one is ever alone! There are so many places for people to reach out and get help. And it is SO important that they know they *can* get the help and that people do care. I can tell you that the worst thoughts you can have is to ask yourself "would anyone care if I was gone?" and not know the answer. People DO care and suicide is NEVER the answer.

And please please please be the example. Don't say things like "that's so gay" and don't be afraid to call out your friends when they are spreading homophobic ideas, even if it's a "joke". You never know what effect you can have on another person. Overhearing something negative can be fatal to someone who is struggling.. just like a genuine smile can make some one's day.

Much love to all. Stick around... life is beautiful!!